Thursday, March 22, 2012

40 Things I'm Thankful For

Day 24
Anna and Marlenee
celebrating their birthday today

What a joy and privilege it is to be a Godparent!  My niece Anna isn't my Goddaughter but she's my niece and it sure feels like it.  When someone asks you to be a Godparent it is such an honor.  They trust that you will help their child get to heaven and in a way, they see something in you they want to foster in their own child.  And in the case where it is an adult asking you to be their Godparent or Confirmation sponsor the person himself is asking for your help, guidance, friendship, love, and example to get them to Heaven.  So, for all you Godparents out there, don't take it lightly!  Pray for your Godchildren everyday, make an effort to be present in their lives, and don't be afraid to have deep conversations about life and spiritual matters... you were asked to be a Godparent, let God use you to the fullest in that role :)  

Happy Birthday, Anna!  

My Goddaughter Beatriz (on the right in the white shirt behind me)

My Goddaughter, Marlenee, Happy Birthday!

My Goddaughter Megan

My Godson Sam taking care of Anna :) 

Wednesday, March 21, 2012

40 Things I'm Thankful For

Day 23
Almsgiving

I'm thankful for my friend Sean York and his reflection on Lent for our newsletter (below).  I'm thankful for the reminders God gives us during Lent about how loving each other isn't just giving clothes to the needy, but it's even more about helping others come to know Christ, especially those God has put closest to us in our daily lives.  

Be loving, be joyful, be kind, and don't be afraid to be bold, be strong, be courageous.  BE CHRISTIAN.   It is our privilege to help our friends and family come closer to Christ.      

"St Paul tells us in first Corinthians, “to the weak I became weak as to win over the weak. I became all things to all to save at least some.” 1 Cor. 9:22. Every year Lent is typically the same for me, it consists of giving up some material thing that I love so I can sacrifice for the Kingdom, then about half way through the resolutions I have made end up forgotten and I am typically not transformed by Christ during Lent any more than other seasons. However, this year is different. Radically different, because I am learning what St Paul meant when he said “to the weak I became weak.” This year I am learning what it means to grow in communion with Christ and with my neighbor. I am coming to love Christ in a much deeper way than I knew before. In this Lenten reflection, I don’t want to talk about fasting, or prayer, but instead the one that I always forgot, almsgiving. Almsgiving, as in giving of yourself, giving of yourself totally and completely to another in order to help them get to heaven. This is what Lent truly is about.
If we are truly one Body in Christ, then our whole essence, our whole goal, should be first to love God and then to love our neighbor as ourselves. However, as I look around the world, typically people are not giving up everything, or really anything, for their brother or sister in Christ who is drowning right beside them. In our world there is a spirit of indifference towards our brother. A spirit of isolation prevails. Relativism has corrupted not only the way we think, but the way we interact and effect one another. But the great commandment of love demands more from us. It demands that when we look at our neighbor we have a responsibility for that person, physically and spiritually. It is our privilege to care for our neighbor’s every need. It is not just our own lives that matter, because the people around us are our brothers and sisters in humanity. When we reach the pearly gates God will not only hold us accountable for our own lives, but the impact we’ve had on others.
I never truly understood what St Paul meant when he said “I became all things to all, to save at least some,” until I got to Belize. In essence this is what Lent is about. Almsgiving is to give myself completely to my neighbor and to do whatever it takes to help them. To the intellectual I became intellectual, to the football lover I became a football lover, to the poor I became poor, to the “weak I became weak.” Whatever a person needs I am trying to become so that I can help them turn towards Christ. You see, Christ is the stem of it all. First look to Him, then look to your neighbor, then look back towards Him. To help change others lives one has to become like them. You must meet them wherever they are. In order to meet them you must die to yourself by giving up your wants and desires in order to carry the person next to you back to Christ. John Dunn said, “No man is an island, entire of itself, every man is a part of the continent, a piece of the main.” The Pope tells us in this Lenten season we need a renewal of brotherhood. It is our responsibility to look past our own lives towards Christ and “to be concerned for one another, and not to remain isolated and indifferent to the fate of our brothers and sisters.”
Let us never forget how beautiful the people are around us, and when we see them let us see a reflection of ourselves. This lent let us give ourselves completely to one another and let us not remain as the priest and the levite did in the parable of the good Samaritan when they passed by indifferent to the man stripped and beaten by the robbers (Luke 10; 30-32). Let us stop living for ourselves and reach out to the least of our brothers."  

  

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

40 Things I'm Thankful For

Day 22
Tomorrow is Wednesday

What can I say?  Mondays and Tuesdays are always long and I'm so happy tomorrow is Wednesday!  The week just flies by from here till the weekend, especially with March Madness!  :)  

Monday, March 19, 2012

40 Things I'm Thankful For

Day 21
My Health

From amoebas, parasites, and food allergies to elbow surgeries, muscles diseases, and cancer. . . I've never been more thankful for my good health.  



40 Things I'm Thankful For

Day 20
Mr. Bernard


On Saturday I joined the fourth formers for their day of service.  Half of the class went to an orphanage and the other half went to the nursing home.  While at the nursing home we socialized, played bingo, sang, danced, and help with meals and dishes.  
After I took this picture of the students at the piano the gentleman there in the wheelchair motioned for me to come over to him.  He can't speak or use the right side of his body because he had a stroke but I could tell he wanted to see the picture.  When I showed him the picture on my camera he started wooting and hollering and slapping his knee.  After my surprise at his reaction all I could do was laugh with him.  And soon the nurse and the two students there were laughing with us also.  I found out his name is Bernard and he's a Vietnam veteran.  Apparently many Belizeans served with the U.S. Troops in Vietnam.  Although Mr. Bernard couldn't communicate he was more than happy to listen to everything I would tell him about myself and the United States.  He would laugh and laugh about everything and say one of the two phrases we could understand, "oh man!" or "f---".  It was quite an opportunity for the students and for me to witness his joy.  After I took a picture with him I introduced him to another teacher and asked if she'd take a picture with him just so we could all see his outrageous reaction to the pictures again!  


Thursday, March 15, 2012

40 Things I'm Thankful For

Day 19
FUS Mission Group

It seems the effects of La Ruta Maya take a day or two to set in and I've been feeling quite exhausted yesterday and today.  I am very thankful for the Franciscan University Mission group here on their spring break as they are guest speakers in my Religion classes this week.  Today they took my class and I went home early and slept!  

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

40 Things I'm Thankful For

These are the things I was thankful for on La Ruta Maya River Race

Day 15
The Rain

The first day we spent 7 hours and 10 minutes on the river and went 49 miles.  I'm so thankful it had been raining for 4 days straight before the race!  The river was high and the current strong, lots of rapids and we just moved right along.  It was by no means easy, but without all that rain we probably would've been paddling another hour that first day!


Day 16
Cloud Coverage

The second day we spent 7 hours and 55 minutes on the river and went 50 miles.  The current wasn't as strong as the first day and there weren't any rapids.  The sun is so strong here it really takes a lot out of you being in the sun for too long.  Luckily there was cloud coverage half of the day and it even rained which felt so refreshing! 


Day 17
A Shower and Mass

The third day we spent 6 hours and 37 minutes on the river and went 45 miles.  This day was the hardest for me.  We spent the first 2 hours paddling hard to overtake a few teams and to (try) to keep up with the 3 male Canadian teams.  The Canadians eventually pulled ahead :(  Then the last hour or so we spent catching up to a Jamaican mixed team.  They had a faster boat and two men but we decided we could take them and right before the finish we did!  It was such a thrill, and then to find out we made it in under 7 hours (I was hoping to make it 7.5 hours) was great!  We were pretty spent getting out of the boat but we were all excited to head into Belize City, take showers at the parish there, and go to Mass that evening.  After consuming granola bars by shoving them in one bite, camping in muddy conditions, "bathing" in the river, and peeing in the canoe for three days a shower and Mass made me feel human again!  It was so nice.  Thank you Fr. Jeff and Fr. Dennis for lending your shower to some nasty canoe racers!  


Day 18
My awesome teammates
and our friends that came to cheer us on!

I LITERALLY would not have completed the race without my teammates Lucia and Jonathon.  They were so great.  I was amazed at how patient they were in the boat and how they kept pushing and pushing and PUSHING!  The fourth day we spent 3 hours and 45 minutes on the river and went 25 miles.  In a lot of ways this was the worst day for paddling.  The strong seabreeze coming against us and the dead water in the mangrove were tough to get through.  The first hour into the day we pushed as hard as we could to pass one the all male Canadian teams.  Then when we were in the mangrove we heard them talking behind us and said "The Canadians!  Everyone go hard!"  :)  After the mangrove we pushed so hard to keep ahead of them and it was a big finish as we came in about one canoe length ahead of them!  I was so proud of myself and my awesome teammates!  What a wonderful sight to look up and see a whole bunch of people you know cheering you on from the bridge.  Hugs, high-fives, and cheering really made the finish fun!  The priests, sisters, and volunteers came out from Benque to see us finish, along with a former student of mine and friend from Belize City.  Having people support you really makes all the difference!  Thanks to everyone who came out and also to my family and friends supporting me from home :)  

I'll try to get some pictures on here and on facebook soon!